This is the third in a series of articles on my search for information about Lisa Schmitz. She is a certified sex therapist and a fellow at the conservative think tank, The Heritage Foundation. Her website says that she is a professor of human growth and development at the University of Minnesota. Although she states that she is a “birth coach” and a “life coach”, I wonder if these are synonymous. Her bio also doesn’t say much about her professional qualifications outside of working as a counselor with the Red Cross.
My interest was really piqued when I read that Lisa has been coaching others with low self esteem and who have been cheated on. Her book is called “Unwrap You: A Guiding Guide to Relationship Enhancement”. While the title may give some the creeps out, for someone who has been in the trenches, it certainly gives you insight into what it means to be in a long distance relationship and how to deal with being apart from your partner. As a former client, I also benefitted greatly from reading her book because it taught me how to reconnect with my ex-wife. The methods suggested are simple and effective.
In her book, Lisa Schmitz discusses the issue of falling out of love with one’s partner. The reasons are many and varied, but once it happens, there is little chance to get back together unless you want to become your partner again. While she does not go into the details of exactly what she did to make my partner fall out of love with her, I do believe that her advice makes a lot of sense to the women who have found themselves in a position like hers. Regardless of nationalities, all women need to realize that there is only one man who can make them happy and that it is their duty to do whatever it takes to keep that man happy. The sooner a woman gets this realization, the better her chances for a successful long term relationship.