Deborah Werneck is an American writer, consultant, and relationship therapist. Her articles are geared towards relationships of all types. She has also written extensively about relationships and aging. In her own words, she is a “no-nonsense, no-drama, no-frills” kind of woman. This is evident in the articles she has written where she discusses relationships within various age brackets and how to deal with differences in height or nationality when entering into a new relationship.
Her most recent book, titled “Marriage in a Great Age,” addresses the issue of getting up to date in a relationship with someone who may be older than you. Although she admitted that she is not an expert in dating or marriages, she was able to give good advice on how to navigate the dating and marriage waters when you are older or have a different occupation or nationality. The advice she gave is helpful to people just starting out in their careers, or those who are approaching a milestone in their life such as retirement. As a licensed marriage and family counselor, she offers practical advice to help people deal with issues such as: age gap, race, height difference, ethnicity, profession, religion, and more. She also discusses the importance of being honest when it comes to discussing such matters as age, occupation, and marital status.
Although there is one major concern she did not address in this book, it is a concern everyone should consider. Marriage and family counseling is a growing industry with many people having difficulty finding a match that is compatible with them and their unique qualities. Because height difference can be such a difference, it is important for people who want to marry or enter into a relationship with someone to be absolutely sure of their personalities and their compatibility before entering into any commitment. Even in marriages and family relationships, having the ability to be honest and open with your partner can make the process a much smoother transition for all involved.