Casey W. Smith is a professional in the American interior design business. She has been married to her husband, Frank W., for thirty-one years and has two grown children. Her mother was an artist but, like so many others, she pursued a more practical career for a living. According to Casey W. herself, she was not considered attractive enough for a boy’s room when she was growing up, so she pursued a course at the nearby College of Art School that would make her “sexually appealing.” That was thirty-five years ago and her professional life spans almost forty years. Her occupation as a writer, decorator, and consultant continues to help her stay grounded as she pursues her passion.
Her height and nationality have contributed to how she relates to people. When she describes herself as “practical,” “realist,” and “a real person,” she is being kind, compassionate, and honest. Her friends see her as caring and sincere and admire her ability to connect with others on all levels, even those who are quite different from her own personality. Her frank and positive assessments of herself and her relationships reflect on how she sees her marriage to others.
While there is definitely room in any career for personal growth, the dating world is surely not one where you can “catch up.” Each relationship requires a commitment to ongoing growth. For those who find themselves on somewhat of a career path, perhaps now is the time to evaluate whether a career change would be a greater boon for personal growth or, conversely, a change in career could prove a turning point for dating. If you are single, it is best to consider both the pros and cons of pursuing a new career.