Is it Really a Big Deal If You Have a Height Difference?

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When Ashley Gilbreath and I were just hanging out, and she asked if I wanted to go bowling with her and a friend of mine, I asked her if we could meet at her place. Ashley said sure but we were not going to wait for them to show up, we had pizza and would have to get there early. Ashley wasn’t happy about it, that is understandable. We went anyway, while she and her pal enjoyed their meal, I noticed that Ashley was fidgeting with her braids, like someone had grabbed her ponytail. She definitely looked ten years younger than her actual age.

Well, as the day went on no one seemed to notice that Ashley was fidgeting with her braids, they actually looked kind of impressive on her, and I even noticed that Ashley’s braids were shorter than mine. When I asked her about it, Ashley said her mother had told her that she has short hair and that was why she looked like she did in the picture on her bachelorette party invitations. That really made me think because her mother was shorter than Ashley. Now, Ashley’s mother is not that old, but Ashley still looked ten years younger than her real age. So, does having a natural height difference give you the confidence to approach women, or does it make you self-conscious? I know what it feels like, I used to be really self-conscious about my height and always imagined that girls would find me unattractive.

Well, if you do have a height difference then it doesn’t make things any harder for you. If you feel good about yourself and approach women confidently, then they will notice your height difference. So, if you are a taller man looking for love, or if you are a shorter woman looking for a taller man, then you should not let the height issue stop you from enjoying your life. It’s really not as big of a deal as people make it out to be.

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